Do you
ever get frustrated wondering why it is taking so long for you to achieve your
goals and manifest your abundance? You're not alone.
A lot of
people that I've met and then worked with have told that this is one of their
biggest worries. The fear that this "thing" that they "really,
really" want will never happen. When they "need" this thing to
arrive by a specific date and it doesn't, then all sorts of negative thoughts
start popping up in their head.
Negative
thoughts like:
• It will
never happen
• Maybe
it's not meant to be
• I must
be doing something wrong
• Other
people get what they want, but I don't
• Perhaps
I should forget about this and go in a different direction
These
negative thoughts often get multiplied many times over If you've been taking
significant amounts of action during this time. That's partly because our
society is very action based. I'm sure you've heard things like "It's not
worth having if you don't work hard for it." So, you believe that you must
work hard to get this thing.
I want to
have you look at things a little bit differently for the time being.
When
things don't happen that you want by the time you want them, there could be a
few different things going on. It is one (or many) of the following reasons:
• You
haven't given this enough time to manifest. The Laws of Gestation refer to
things taking time to reveal. If you plant a seed, it takes time to grow. You
can't go out the next day... or even a week later and expect to see a beautiful
blooming flower.
• You
aren't taking the right action. Often, people are busy taking action, but it
may not be the best action for that time. Or else, they think it's all about
keeping busy when in reality, they're just throwing spaghetti against the wall
to see what sticks.
• You
don't believe it will happen. You're going through the motions and setting
goals, but deep down, you don't believe it is possible. The way the Laws of
Attraction work is that you will get what you think. So, if you don't think it
will happen, it won't. Often, people will tell me that they believe it, but
when I listen to the words that they are using, I hear the opposite. In
essence, they are stopping this thing from coming into their life.
• You may
be afraid of this thing happening. Most of you will say that is impossible.
After all, how can you want something so badly but also not want it? Here's an
example of the way this oxymoron works. Let's say you want more clients in your
business. However, at the same time are afraid you can't manage more clients,
you will subconsciously stop more clients from coming to you. If you want to
make more money, but are worried that your friends won't like you or people
will want to borrow it from you or so on, you subconsciously, you are stopping
that money from coming to you. I could tell you story after story of how I've
helped people clear through these blocks and change their money story.
• Lastly,
your self-image gets in the way. For example, if you see yourself as a
struggling, single mother, it may be difficult to see yourself as a successful
professional. That's because of the story that you've been telling yourself for
so long of who you are You've gotten really good at "robbing Peter to pay
Paul," shopping for sale items and so on. You can't imagine what it would
be like to easily pay your bills on time. This new self-image of abundance may
even feel uncomfortable. Maybe you'll start to feel like you don't deserve it.
My "Kateism" for that is to tell you that it's time to return that
old story to the library and write a new one.
By the
reasons shared above, you can see, that there are many reasons why you might
not have this thing you want by a particular time.
One other
point that is important to share is when you need something, it also puts you
in a place of desperation. Let's face it; it's pretty difficult to attract
great, cool stuff (money, clients, opportunities and so on) when you're
stressed out. At that point, you're repelling the abundance away.
Suggestions
to shift into a better mode are:
• Put
together a strategy and realistic timeline. Delegate where you can. Continue to
take consistent action. Take action that is in your brilliance.
•
Practice manifesting to strengthen that manifestation muscle
• Get
support clearing out your old stories, beliefs, negative thoughts, worries, and
fears so you can move forward.
Remember,
the Universe (or choose the word you prefer) is here for more.
There is
entirely no reason why you can't have all you desire. Keep one thing in mind.
There's a favorite Law of Attraction saying: "The joy is in the
journey". If you're not enjoying the process, there is no point in any of
this!
It's
often difficult to make these transformations by ourselves as we can't get out
of our own way. Having coaches have made all of the difference in my success.
If you're ready to talk about hiring a coach, please contact my team to set up
a time for us to discuss.
Check out
my newly released book "Go or Don't Go: The Complete Guide to Accelerate
Your Success and Tap into Your Brilliance" http://www.tinyurl.com/KateGo
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