Most of
us on this planet are trying hard to increase our income to support our
families and help siblings or friends that are really battling, or we may be
fighting to conquer a habit or an addiction, and it’s hard going. We try and we
fail. We try again and we fail again. We give up for awhile then we try again
and we fail again. After a while of this, we tend to get discouraged or even
depressed. The thing is, this is very normal.
Failure
is a normal part of the process of reaching success. We tend to hear of those
people who start a home business and immediately rake in the cash, but these
are the freaks of the success spectrum. I happen to know a lady personally who
is like that - everything she tries immediately turns to gold. But she's not
normal. The massive majority of us have to battle through many failures before
finding success, so don't give up, keep trying!!
I am not
writing to you as one who has attained huge success by perseverance, but rather
as a fellow soldier in the trenches with you, failing as you have, and
encouraging you not to give up. Our time will come! In fact, I tabulated all my
attempts at home businesses, side hustles and wangles, and found that over the
last few decades I have attempted sixty one, let's call them "business
ventures." Some cost me a lot of money relative to what I had, to get
going, and a lot of them made zero return, absolutely nothing. Others were
mildly successful, enough to buy my wife a vacuum cleaner and take her out to
dinner a few times, but I needed money to get my kids to university, and that
really never happened.
But the
thing is to not give up. Sooner or later we must get it right. But fail we
will, as we go along, but we must just accept it and move on.
I was
talking to a friend of mine today. He made little folding wooden tables that
fold down flat so people can pack them easily in a caravan or camper, or even
in the back of a car, really nice little tables, clever design, quality wood, and
good workmanship. He had taken them to a craft market on Saturday and had sold
none, hardly even any interest shown in them. But apparently, that particular
day the craft market was very poorly attended, and mostly by people who didn't
have money to spend, so he just went on a bad day. So I encouraged him to
persevere, and that he had a good product.
And in
the same way I encourage you: don't give up. Keep trying. Believe in yourself -
we all have something worthwhile to give. I'm going to keep on trying,
and you should too!
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